There are so many things and ppl that can drain your spirit. negative ppl ,negative surroundings all have the power to steal your joy. but the question is do u let it? When ppl on your job are constanly doing and saying negative things about u most of the day and your surrounded by negativity do u let negativity take over and leave your job drained and take that negativity home with u and dwell on it. or should one let it not affect them to a point were your emotionally drained. i perfer the second option. or if things arent going ur way and u cant find the job u want, and the search is tedious and your just not seeing the light at the end of the tunnel fast enough. do u get discouraged and give up or do u continue 2 stay optimistic. or if your marriage or realtionship is not going the way u want it 2. or if ppl are constanly back stabbing u and wishing bad on u and hoping and waiting that u fail. do u make ur life mission proving them wrong or do u just live ur life. i don't want to carry around negativity nor do i want to dwell on it nor do i want it living in my spirit draining my spirit giving me a poor outlook on life. I refuse 2 live like that having more bad days then good days life is 2 short to waste it on negativity and anger. So the only thing i can ask my god is to not take your joy away. There's ppl that want me 2 respond 2 negativity theres negative situations that i encounter theres things that are out of my control but i cant let steal my joy. I'll still have joy on not even so good days i refuse 2 b miserable. i reclaim my joy 2day. nothing or nobody is taking me down. im not embracing negativity i dont want 2 see it or listen 2 it i refuse 2 . ill block out every negative thought and replace it with something postive and productive at the same time asking god to not take your joy away.as long as i have it i can go on. i will never be stuck in negativity. Things may happen 2 me but through it all ill still have joy. the joy that god gives u nobody can take it away. negative ppl and negative situations will no longer have power over me it will be an obstacle easy 2 overcome. so I ask u lord dont take your joy away from me.
I hear this term a lot. but sometimes it is used towards the wrong type of woman. A gold digger sleeps and dates a man strictly for his money. its not about love finding a soul mate its all about the money. then once the money is gone so is she, thats a gold digger, A woman who wont settle for less has her own money, cars, clothes, and home that she paid for. and is proud of it. but refuses 2 date a man who does not have his stuff together. why should a woman who can take herself have to settle for less. whats wrong with a man paying the bill treating her spoling her because its not like she doesnt have it. she just wants a man that has more than her or that is on her level. Just because a woman is finacially stable does not mean she has to pay for everything. if a man feels like he wants 2 go dutch on a date then lets not go at all. if a man thinks that takin a woman out to eat and paying the bill buying flowers etc makes her a gold digger. well how cheap of u. thats just a wack excuse 4 men to get out of paying for something. if a man allows a woman to pay for everything how weak and simple r u? what real man lets a woman take care of him? u should be embrassed, if u cant pay for something as simple as a meal. what r u good for? men well some men want a lot for nothing. how dare a man expect sex for nothing. meaning how dare u expect to have me sexually without courting me. thats what gentlemen and real men do. it doesnt make u a gold digger because u want something out of it 2 it just means that i am not a cheap thrill. im not saying u need 2 pay my phone bill and credit card bills hell i can do that. but i cant court myself. if a man wants a womans time and attention u have to make it worth her while. so men when u call women gold diggers is it because ur cheap and broke and want something for nothing?
We all i believe are work in progress. there are ppl that are trying to change their ways but are having a hard time changing. There are ppl that have a geniune desire to change but sometimes making good progress doesnt come easy or it comes slow. How does one change the way they react to a certain situation when ur so use to handling things one way which is not the best way. How do u change that something that has became apart of ur personality. how do u kill that habit? how do u change. Change doesnt come easy but i think progress comes first. i or u may not want 2 be where u want 2 be physically mentally or spirtually but are u making progress. How do u change the way u think and the way u view things when you've been thinking this way for so long? Sometmes we all can get a little discouraged and depressed when we dnt see change immediately. but that word change has such a strong meaning. when u are changed you no longer do what whatever it is u didnt like before you're no longer tempted by it and its behind u now, its truly the past. so if u have relapse in whatever it is u needed to be delivered from ,what do u do? do u beat urself up and say there's no hope or do u say i made progress not a lot not a little but i made some progress. so eventhough i may have fell off the wagon. i have the abiity to keep progressing. i've proven to myself that i am capable of changing. So ppl whatever it is that you're struggling with or battling just pick urself up and dust urself off and continue to make progress. progress will eventually turn into change. change doesnt come over night but progress does which puts u a step forward towards making a change. So the things that i struggle with ill just make good progress rathering than pressuring mysef to change overnight an eventually i will change.
To say one thing and do another is not a smart move when u want to be taken seriously. theres ppp that critize, correct and judge other people when they're not living up to that standard that they hold other ppl to. what makes ppl think that they can judge a persons life or actions but dont do the same for themselves. They'll look at some ones life and actions and say why is she still with that guy, ill never b with someone that treats me like that. but they're in a terrible realtionship and dont take their own advice. Or they'll say oh my god what kinda woman sleeps with all kinds of men but they dont look at their own track record. people like this are quick to give advice but reluctant to take it. they have all the answers for everyone elses life and maybe even their own but it doesnt show because if they did they wouldnt say or the things that they do. They make excuses for their mistakes and shortcomings but judge someones else's problem or situation as if they have a pyshcology degree to give advice. Their life is in shambles but they still have all the answers how unbelievable. when a person like that that tries to offer advice to people it goes in one ear in out the other. If u cant help urself how can u help me? How can u help me if your not following ur own advice? it makes no since and as i stated before it is not a smart move. Im sure we are all guilty of this its natural i belive, But what i dont think is natural is for someone to do it excessively. every time u look up they critizing someone's life or problems as if they dont have one. Your problems may not be like the next persons but u defenitely have some problems that u need to check. When u give advice to someone and do the complete opposite people will be so quick to point that out and it can be embrassing. We all need to make some changes in our life and until we do that, that will put u in a postion to give advice. but as long as your not going to practice what you preach u wont be taken seiously. ppl find inspiration in those who walk the walk and talk the talk not the ones that talk the talk. because all it is is talking.
Everybody has an opinion but its not always wanted and defentiely not needed if someone doesnt ask u for ur opin or advice. I hate when im having a conversation and a person gives their opinion but i didnt ask and their opinion is so dumb but they treat it like its a fact when its so not. when ppl give unwanted opinions or bad advice when a person hasnt asked u can really irritate that person and they may not want to talk 2 u. ppl should excerise good listening skills. because some ppl just want u 2 listen or they just want 2 vent they really dnt want ur advice because ur advice or opinion may not be best for them. the most important part of a conversation is listening. just listen and keep ur opinions 2 urself because they can b offensive and just downright dumb. Be a good listener offer advice and opinions when asked because then maybe ppl will take ur advice or opinions to heart instead of ignoring them when their unwanted. Being outspoken all the time is not a good quality it is annoying.
Todays time is so different. Although I am very young I like things the old fashioned way. There are so many young and teengae girls having babies left and right. The teen pregancy rate is outrageous. Young women my age are having them left and right. I do believe that a baby is a blessing from god. However some people just do not need to be parents. They are terrible role models for their children and are not mentally unstable to be responsible for someone's life. I see young women writing on facebook about how drunk and high they just got the nite before. And i just hav 2 shake my head because I'm thinking that's somebody's mother how sad. Even though you're still young and want to enjoy your youth does not mean u have to go out every weekend. get drunk or high every weekend. U aren't just living for urself anymore. U have a little baby that needs u and god forbides that u get into a deadly car accident driving drunk or having to do jail time for your irresponsiblity. Then they're never watching their child the grandparents, aunts or uncles are babysitting and practially doing ur job and they actually hav the audacity 2 want more kids. That is the stupiest thing i ever heard and it will never make sense to me. I hate when these young girls just want 2 get pregant because they think they're going 2 look cute or they're trying 2 hold on to sum worthless bum. If he didnt want u with a flat stomach what makes u think he'll want u with a big one i heard someone say. and it makes so much since. These young women are bringing innocent souls into dysfunction kaisos and complete madness. and think a baby is the answer to their problems. That baby deserves to have a mature ADULT as their parent, not some clueless wannabe adult that doesnt know what the hell they're doing or whether they're going or coming. I see young mothers as being terrible examples. I do not want to be anything like that and i wll not. They choose a baby over education, they choose trapping some guy over marriage, they choose to blame everyone else but themselves. These young parents can only blame themselves when their child cannot comprehend anything in school. know all the words to lil wayne or britney spears songs but cant spell their name. Actually have the audacity to get mad when their child doesnt respect them nor listen to them because u treated them like your little brother or sister because u were't mature when or after u had them. I see babies that have fools for parents. I just wish young so called adults would b more mature and think things through instead of reacting out of immaturity. I'll say it once and i'll say it again some people just shouldnt b parents.
There are so many people that are so judgmental about everything. And it's so annoying because i wonder 2 myself y dnt they judge themselves that way and maybe this world might just be a little better. People judge the way u dress, speak, live, how u raise ur kids and act as if they can do it any better. They seem to have all the answers to someones else life but are clueless when it comes 2 there own. Some christians have this bad especialy the ones that just get saved. They scutinized everything u do like christians aren't suppose 2 use profantity its not godly (true) Christians aren't suppose 2 fornicate (true) Christians aren't suppose 2 have abortions (true). The list goes on and on. They're so quick 2 point out ur flaws and sins but dont anaylze themselves that way. Because if they did they would realize that HEY u do the same things. Or even if u dont commit those sins ur still commiting a sin which is judging. We all have 2 go before christ on judgment day and only he can judge me i am whatever he says i am. So y do so many people sit on their imaginary throne and judge other people? Who r u 2 judge me? When ppl want 2 live rite and give their life 2 christ they think that qualifies them to point out everything wrong u do in ur life. Just because u r a christian ur problems do not end they have just begun and u r faced with temptation everyday. People fall short and none of us are perfect. we have done and said some things that we are not proud of but god is a forgiving god. He will forgive me because he knows my struggles and my heart and only he can judge me. I answer 2 him and only him. I really dnt like how so called christians will say some of the nastiest and hurtful things 2 u then turn around and say i'm going 2 pray 4 u. R u serious! Please dont waste ur prayers on me because its obvious that you're not praying 4 urself u need them more than i do. And quite frankly i dnt want ur prayers because ur not annointed.Things wont change if u pray 4 me. I need 2 get with a real prayer warrior thats gne make something happen once we get off our knees. So u can keep ur memorized prayer 4 urself before u volunteer 2 pray 4 me. I hate when ppl say they are saved and still do the same things they did b4 and have the audacity 2 tell u u need 2 change. Sad but true. I'm so sick of ppl judging everything and everybody but overlooking themselves. A true christian will try 2 help u and minister 2 u and pray with u. Not sit on their throne and say look at the girl with all those tattoos and kids and whatever else but block out their mind that they was just doing the same thing last week,last month,or last year or last nite. So like i said nobody here is perfect and we all need 2 ask god 2 give us a better heart and for patience for things that we donnot understand instead of being so quick 2 judge ppl and not ourselves.
They say if u got if flaunt it I say not! I hate when i see women that show to much of everything it's an obvious cry out for attention and an obvious insecurity about something. There's nothing wrong with showing a little clevage, leg thigh and form fitting clothes. But there is defentiely something wrong with over doing it. When women show to much clevage it's so unattractive and unlady like. Why wouldn't u want to leave something to the imagination why wouldn't u want 2 be a mystery. Why is it necessary 2 show all of your body. Then get offended if your treated a certain way. if you're wearing whorish things why wouldn't u expect to get treated like one. That's the message that your sendin out. When men approach u any kind of way and say disrespectful things to u and treat u like a piece of meat you're pretty much asking for it. When i see women or girls dress like that i feel sorry for them because I'm thinking to myself aww she has low self esteem she doesnt think she's pretty so she tries 2 find another way to draw attention to herself. I must say that's not very creative and she's not very smart to put herself out that way. I refuse to help someone disrespect me and these girls are so stupid that they don't even realize that a man respect is everything. If he doesn't respect u he doesnt care about u. Yea he may say oh your looking real sexy today or constanly looking at your chest while he's talking 2 u. Do U really think that your that worthless that you dont deserve to have a man look u in the eye when he's talking to you? He'll admire your body regardless but to just throw it at him is sad. I feel sorry for women thats old enough to know better that do these idioic things and i feel even more sorry for young girls that do not have the proper guidance from someone who knows how a LADY should be treated. DRESS LIKE A LADY GET TREATED WITH RESPECT WORDS TO LIVE BY.
Gucci, Prada, Burberry, True Religion, Rock&Republic and many more. I'm a fam of these designers however i do not glorify them. There are people that feel like that they have to wear designer labels to feel important or to feel like they have money. To life your life around designer labels is ignorant. People will not go out or would not want to be seen if they're not carrying a 600 purse or wearing 300 dollar shoes. This is so funny to me and sad. Because when people glorify material things i feel like they're over compensating for something that they dont have. Many people feel like they can look down on u just because they weaing a pricy designer label. Too me they're saying I dont have enough character or I'm not pretty enough or I grew up poor so I want to look rich. I want to feel better than others. People dont realize how dumb they sound when u say everything i wear has 2 be name brand. Who are u? People will pay bills late or not pay at all just to say hey look at these tue religions. Why dont those same people value education that way. Imagine how smart they would be. There's noting wrong with liking designer labels but its even better if u can afford them. And I don't mean u just happen 2 have 300 dollars today so i bought some new shoes. No nothing should suffer after u buy something expensive. To spend your income tax or refund check from school on material things is aboustely the dumbest thing in the world. I see so many people do that and i see so many places where that money could have went but they didn't bother 2 pay 4 that. That's just sick. If u seriously cannot put together an outfit from forever 21, aeropostale, sears or jcpenny and not look hot t than the problem is u! It's not because true religion or seven looks better its the name that you'r in love with. Because not everything that is designer looks good. Some no most stuff is really over priced and have a designer name on it and people go crazy over it when u can find something almost identical for half the price. Or when somebody has something on ugly and u say thats not cute what u have on and their response would be but this is gucci or whatever. And my response is and it's still ugly. As if it being designer is going to make the outfit look better. When people lease cars that are way outside their means just to look like their something that they're not and are struggling to pay for it. Trying so hard to keep up with the Jone's when u dont even live in their neighborhood. Spend wisely think wisely value things that are important and that can actually help change the world.
I 'm a fan of interracial dating i say be with whoever u love. However I must say that it bothers me to see black men with white a woman. Good black men though black men that we can use. Black women take a lot of things from black men whether it's cheating, supporting, them fitting into their images etc. There are so many worthy black women in need of a good black man. And for a black man to look over a beautfuil, intellignt black woman BOTHERS me. If a black becomes successful whether its from fame or a successful career they rather share that with a woman of a different race. Some of them believe that maybe she loves me for who i am and not my money maybe, but not always there a white gold diggin women just like their are black women. But for some reason a brotha would rather have a white girl on his arm. You would actually pass up an intelligent shapely beautfuil sista for a white girl? Not saying that white women aren't beautfuil but there is a certain beauty that african american women have and we all know what is. We come in all different shades we all have different shapes and everything else. We're nothing alike and u won't get us mixed up , we stand out and we're beautfuil. That's why white people tan to look like us thats why other races inject their butts to get that plumpness that we have. Thats why other races emaulate our styles and trends. And for a black man to get a white woman and parade her aound like she's god 's gift to the world BOTHERS me. Blackmen say they love a nice round butt and will curse a black woman if her butt doesnt meet ur standards of big but u would run to a white girl someone u know who's ass isnt big. Black men feel like they're doing something when they get a white woman like she makes u look better when in actually u look like a fool to pass up a woman of your own race for a woman who's entire family may hate u or never fully except u because of the color of ur skin. It doesn't matter how much money u have or what kind of car u have or how big ur house is u will always be a meal ticket for their daughter and NIGGER to her parents,in most cases. And if white women are just so intrerested in fascinated by black people they should at least know how to comb their childs hair. I seen so many mixed kids that look a mess becasue their white mother loves black men but not enough to learn how to do their hair. So I just ask myself did she not know that our hair is different and not neccessarily coarse hair because contrary to what most whites may think there are blacks that have finer hair than u and does not wear nor need extensions. Then u get a woman that does not know how to cook the food that u grew up on and that is apart of your history. See a lot of white people like to make it seem that all black people like chicken and watermelon thats not true but a lot if us enjoy what we call soul food their really is a history behind that. I'll explain another time. This woman can't make soul food but a black man may say well thats ok she doesnt need 2 know how 2 cook. But u expect a sista to know whow to do everything especially cook! Black men need to wake up. And oh before i forget i'm so sick of white women wanting to expreience the whole black thing so they get a black man but guess what they get the worst black men that they can find. You know the ones that sleeps with u and ur sister takes all ur money drives ur car doesn't work, u support them you know that type of thing. So they choose that type of man then give black men a bad name. The white woman didn't want the intelligent and articulate black men. No No that wasn't black enough. She had 2 go for the wanna be gangsta with untamed hair and sagging pants. To me that's some white people's pereception they rather see black people in a negative light then say black people are trash. Well u know what i hav 2 say 2 white women that go out and get those certain kind of black men THAT'S WHAT U GET. Some white women want black men for all the wrong reasons like they're a trend or something and black men never stop and wonder why does she want 2 be with me ? Black men don't be some ignorant white girl's experiment of what black is. Black men think they're doing something when they get a white woman. I don't respect a black man that says he only dates white women how dare u say something like that! How dare u pass up a beautfuil queen of ur own race because u hate yourself! There's a shortage of good black men and good black fathers and the minute black men can finally show themselves as being successful, a good man and a good father they run to share it with a white woman that you're just an experiment or meal ticket to . Be smater black men because they're so man deserving black woman that's just waiting for u. TO READERS IF YOU'RE GOING TO COMMENT DO NOT TAKE ONE SENTENCE OUT OF THIS BLOG AND DWELL ON THAT LIKE THATS WHAT THE BLOG IS ABOUT OR TWIST AROUND WHAT I SAY. READ THE WHOLE BLOG FOR WHAT IT IS AND NOT OH YOUR RACIST BS THANKYOU. IT'S JUST THE TRUTH AND IM NOTAFRAID TO ADMIT IT.
I absoutely hate when people say the most dumbest things and try to make them sound intelligent. People come up with all kinds of theories and opinions and try to make them out to be facts. Not realizing u sound really STUPID. Like when people go out of their way to prove a point and they're still wrong and they dont admit that they were wrong. Instead they defend their stupid opinions. It funny but sad and true. It's impossible for one to know everything so why do people act like they cant be wrong? Who are u? Nobody! When u don't leave room to grow and learn new things that makes u STUPID. Or when somebody askes you for advice and they say I know. Then why the hell did u ask me! If u know everything. Or if somebody askes u ur opinion and then argue with it. Dont get mad at me becasue I didn't tell u what u wanted 2 hear. or when people say things to others claiming their being honest or blunt but cant take it when it's done to them. It's not always smart 2 speak ur mind u actually make urself look stupid giving unwanted opinions and unwanted advice. It's irritating and just downright stupid. But these people make themselves seem like brainacs but when u actually ask them a question that u really need the answer to guess what they're response is? I HAVE NO IDEA. Thats right u never had an idea so why must u try to belittle people with ur stupidy or u dum opinions. Some people need to think before they speak and do their research on a certain topic before you dispute it beacause u make urself look stupid and I'm sick of stupidy.
I Know its a shock to the world about micheal jackson's death but people are going on and on about it. It's so annoying. Leave the grieving for his family people that actually knew him on much personal level. It's ok to be sad but people need to stop going overboard. And when he was going through those changes in that molestation case, I'm sure the very same people were disgusted and hated him. And now that he's dead he's worthy of your tears. And now even after the man is dead people are still bringing that case up. What about that he was a great entertainer, a musical genius, humanatarion, but even now after his death people just keep bringing up that damn case. How do you think that makes his family feel? How disrespectful is that?He had a low point in his life and people are constanly focusing on the negative the man did . In my opinion some of you people didnt know how to treat the man dead or alive. So please let Micheal Jackson RIP.
A woman's worth is so important and valuable. Thats why i dont understand why certain women will give their worth away . When u settle 4 less you're saying i'm not worthy of a better life, a better car, a better job or a better MAN. As long as u carry yourself as worthless you'll only get worthless things in return. If a woman is in a abusive realtionship rather it be physical or emotional and she continues to stay she's saying I'm not worthy of a better man. A woman that knows her true worth does not allow herself 2 be ran over by anybody or torn down by anybody. Some women give their worth away to worthless men. Someone who's not even worthy of u has stolen your worth.He has your self esteem your respec you intelligence he's very powerful because you have gave up all of your power. You have to take it back and love youself enough to let go of the disrespect the nonsense, the negativity. You have 2 set those things free in order to gain ur worth back. If women knew their worth maybe they wouldn't allow half of the things to happen to them. Why should any woman have 2 turn her head or deal with it when her man cheats. No i'm worthy enough to have a faithful man I can fulfill all ur needs so i refuse to share u or look the other way for another woman. And if he cant deal with that then i'll find somebody who will appreciate me and respect me . Why should my self estemm go down because i gained or lost weight? Why should i have to put up with you comparing me to different women? No! I can find somebody that will apprecaiate my full hips or my slim figure. You're not worthy of me! Why should I change the way I look? No! I can find somebody that loves everything about me. Why should i have to pay my own way if we're on a date? oh hell no a real man picks up the check 4 a MEAL without a problem. I rather eat alone than go on a date and pay my own way. Why should i be the woman u only see at nite? No! I deserve to be taken out and shown off to the world I'm worth more than that. Why should I depend on you for everything? No! I'm independent, intelligent and i refuse to depend on someone who's not dependable. I can make it on my own and I can find my own ways to make my own money. Why should i have all your kids and leave my dreams behind.? No! I'm smarter and better than that. I deserve to have the best of both worlds. Why should I cover up or downplay my beauty just because you dont want anybody else to look at me? No! I'm sexy i can show off my curves if i want (it ought to make you proud). Why should i act dumb and let you do the thinking for both of us? I'm extremely intelligent and creative and you should want someone you can go to for solutions or ideas. Why should I trade all of my worrth to a worthless man. We have to much to offer and it is not worth it to give up a womans worth!
Why do black people ask each other what are you mixed with? Just beacuse you have straight hair that doesn't need a relaxer. Or if u are light skinned with light eyes. Why do black people do that? Why do black people say to each other especially to a darker skinned black person you are cute 2 be darkskinned? As if all light skinned people are god's gift to the world. They're not realizing how ignorant they sound by asking such a dumb question and having that slave mentality. That bothers me that after all these years black people can be so dumbfounded to things. Why do sum black people say to each other you talking white just because you're speaking proper english. It's called speaking intelligently. There's no such thing as talking white. Why do sum black people hate their race and can never be proud of being black? Some black people have 2 claim other races to feel superior or beautiful not realizing that black is beautiful and anything mixed with black would come out beautiful not the other way around. Why do sum black people act in such a way that sets us back 400 years? I mean havent we overcame that ignorance and self hate. How come black people can never stick together like whites? Instead we will turn on you quicker than anything. How come when black people become successful they act as if they're better than u rather than help u 2 get where they are. I know that this is just not a black thing but i'm speaking about my own race. Why arent there enough black owned businesses. People talk about the black neighborhood and say there's a liquor store on every corner. Guess what we dont own any of them. Why do certain black people feel the need to flaunt designer labels and fancy cars and equate that with succes and dont have money to pay the fancy car note that sits in their drive way. Not all black people are like this but this does exist. We all know people rather its friends or family that thinks this way. How come when u make an appointment with a black stylist you're never in at that time they act like u need them rather than the other way around. I'm not downing my brothers and sisters at all. I just wish we would stop hurting each other, tearing each other down and turning on each other. We need to uplift each other and stick together and leave slavery in the past where it belongs.
Why do white people act so surprised when they meet an intelligent and articulate black person? Who told you that you were the smartest people? I mean we did invent most things. Why do white people think that acting black means acting stupid, ignorant and speaking improper english? But ignore the many black college graduates and college professors? Why do white people stare at black people when they are in a predominately white surrounding as if there were a sign that said no colors allowed?
Why do white people say that black people are playing the race card when they know they're Racist? (Not all most are). Why do black have 2 work extra hard in the workplace to prove themselves when white people find ways to get out of work. Why do white people cover for each other when they know that they are wrong?
Why do white people think because they have a black acquatinace that they know all about black people or that they still dont have racist views of black people. Why do white people think because they hear the word nigga in a rap song that they should be able to say it 2? It doesnt matter which way u say it nigga or nigger it will always mean something different when u say it! You all may say "I dont understand." That's because it's not for u to understand. Why do white people act as if black people are the scum of the earth as if white trash and trailor park trash does not exist?
Why do white women clutch their purses when they see a black man not realizing that he probaly has more money than u! Some white people may read this and say we have a black president so racism has ended. Oh pu-lease racism will never die it will only multiply. So if u are this white person that i just described please Wake up! And realize that any thing you can do black people can do twice as better because we have to work twice as hard.
